I've yet to be impressed by anyone's real life knowledge.
"Real life" is what you make it, WayOut. It can be wonderful, terrible, uplifting, or terrifying. It's up to each person to choose their own way.
I'll be the first to admit that I've lived a sheltered life - at first, due to my parents, and later on, due to my choices.
Some of what you say is true some is not.
I had very few choices early on in life because of economics, most notably education. Believe it or not I was a pretty sharp kid but NOT book/memory smart. In every subject, except for spelling, I usually tested in the top %5 percent but my poor grades didn't really help my cause. I didn't have the option to do much other than accept the recommendations of my teachers.
Now compare that to my duaghter. She's the exact same way as me in regards to school. IMO very bright but not good at repetive tasks or memorizing tasks like spelling. She's bored. She could not get into the gifted program for three years because of her grades. So I pushed and pushed to get her tested and moved into the gifted program. It did not work for 4 long years. Finally the HORRIBLE prospect of the local Jr. High School had me look into PRIVATE education. An option not available to my parents. Meanwhile behind the scenes I found some loop holes in the gifted program. I had a shrink interview and test my daughters abilities and lo and behold she not only turns out to be gifted but HIGHLY gifted. That opened up ALOT of alternatives for her middle school education funded by state dollars. My parents being immigrants, illegal ones at that, would never even have thought of alternates to my standard education.
I grew up in a rough part of L.A. No little leagues, community centers etc.... I also chose a different path BUT that did not keep me from getting jumped, robbed and picked on early on. I had my core of friends but there was nothing we could do when we got into trouble with the local thugs unless we became thugs ourselve, which we ended up doing.
I've run the gaunlet:
been wrong end of drive by's and hold ups
pulled GTA's
gang banging
beaten up by a cop
BS degree in engineering
part of a council man's victory effort
running 5 million dollar projects all over the world
been the head of an engineering department
being a father
owning my own buisness
seen the exploitation of people all around the world
visited a camp site where you could buy children and do whatever you want to them
visited a city full of 12 year old male and femal prostitutes
had various unfriendly encounters with blacks, whites and hispanics (never had beef with asians but I do know of some asian thugs)
My experiences have jaded me quite a bit against people sitting on high horses, bigots, hand out parasites, blame my problems on some one else crowd, etc....
So there is something to be said about the CHOICES available to you and having true choice.