Hey MSC!!!
I agree without reservation that Kobe is the most polarizing athlete of his time - not only because of his snotty, self-centered/indulgent attitude, but also because of his bad behavior. These negative aspects are constantly juxtaposed with his admittedly awesome basketball skills and physical ability, producing the classic American sports horror story, a la Steve Howe (R.I.P.) of Dodgers fame. Everyone loves watching a car wreck! One more trip in front of the judge, and he's finished. I was going to say something about 'Little Ivey' along these lines, but thought the better of it...LOL
- RB
Shaq #1
Hey RB,
I agree and disagree. We all can agree Kobe has a cocky attitude and that's turned a lot of people off to him. That said, he's really only had one transgression that resulted in legal action. I'm not making light of it, but he was acquitted, so at the very least he's guilty of adultery. BTW, a large % of the NBA cheats on their spouses and I have first hand knowledge of several players who are well respected that do this. A friend of mine recently had a kid by a player not to be named who is very well liked on this board who has a wife and three kids. I'm not making excuses for that behaviour, but I'm not as quick to judge Kobe as harshly as some for committing adultery knowing what I know. Many NBA wives know their husbands cheat and turn a blind eye because they love the lifestyle they've grown accustomed to (cars, mansions, etc.)
Anyway, back on track. Where I disagree with you is the comparison to Steve Howe. This is a guy who had all of the talent in the world and unfortunately had a horrible drug addiction and could never shake it. I'm sympathetic to those who suffer from addiction, but the reality is Kobe is probably one of the most disciplined, hard working athletes of his generation. He doesn't do drugs; he's active in charity work. Sure he's trying to make amends for his previous bad behavior, but the point is he is indeed trying to make amends. I think he's matured a lot over the last several years and going through those troubles had a big impact on his personal growth. I'd hardly say he's a "train wreck" like a Howe, Strawberry, or a JR. Rider.
I’m not looking to change your mind, and I know I never could anyway. I know you love Shaq. When you think about it, Shaq could have had a girl accuse him of rape after he committed adultery and he'd been in the exact same spot Kobe was in. It only takes one transgression. To all those who would say, "yeah but Shaq wouldn't rat out Kobe like Kobe did Shaq". I can't make an excuse for that. Kobe broke the unwritten law. All I can say is Kobe has clearly taken steps to be a better man since then and I think at a certain point people have to give him a break. Right now he's truly “damned if he does and damned if he doesn't” and this Manu incident is just another example of this.
Peace,
msc