SPURSX3, the question still begs answering. HOW can this be done?
The Iraqi people, above all others, know how tenuous any peace might be once the U.S. abandons their country. Because of the invasion, the door opened for foreign agents to infiltrate the Iraq. Their presence within the framework of any U.S. brokered government weakens the entire effort.
The Al Quada have a tremendously effective propaganda system in place amongst the Arab media that can sully any American effort to stablize the region. That means that nothing the U.S. accomplishes has much of a chance for survival. Our handpicked leaders for the country can easily be targeted and replaced with more compliant principals.
Where all this leaves us, SPURSX3 is in a total quagmire. Now that we are there, we CANNOT leave with the type of dignity you suggest. Al Quada, for one, will try to prevent that at all costs.
If we were only dealing with the Iraqi people and trying to create a positive system of government for only them, we could see that light at the end of the tunnel you feel we need prior to leaving the country. But the invasion, while ousting a tyrant, opened the door for our terrorist enemies to exploit the vacuum. They are good at it. We are a super power with no identifiable enemy targets that excludes killing innocents as well, leaving us rather impotent already in the eyes of the world.
How do you think we are already being perceived by the Arab world? By our allies? By other enemy countries? Bush's plan was to show American resolve in dealing with hostile governments with military might. To then suggest that we are the good guys while occupying these countries must be the height of hypocracy to the locals. It also allows for too much unintended support for terrorists to recruit new members on the premise of ousting the invading super power.
We played this hand so poorly that cutting our losses now is preferable to prolonging their victory. As we are on an economic bend today, let me put it in those terms - you never throw good money after bad. If a bad investment is going sour, adding more money to it is never a good course of action.