How did a conversation about whether or not Odom could co-exist with Kobe on the court turn into the issues facing Odom when He is on the court?
There are several players in the NBA that have been given some kind of statutory, de facto superstar status because their egos about their own games transcends the game itself. Kobe is certainly one, Iverson is another, and I would have to include McGrady and Vince Carter as well. What these players do is demand the ball and that all others around them play the game according to how these "de facto superstar" players fully expect them to while they are on the court with them.
The fact is, none of these players can make any longstanding arguement from their play to actually qualify them in any way, shape, or form as the "Superstar" they think they are. Unfortunately, their respective team managements pay them for this false perception, which justifies them to continue to play basketball the same way.
These players, whether it is good for their teams or not, insist on initiating the offense. There simply is no room on their teams for another player with a similar, but perhaps less defined game, who also feels best with the ball in his hands to create his own shot.
So if you see Odom and Kobe at odds with one another on the court, how could you expect to see any other type of situation evolve? If Kobe could not co-exist with Shaq, surely you would not expect a lesser talent like Odom, who just isn't at that superstar level, but still a good player, fit in any better?
The Iverson/Webber combination is starting to look like a fiasco. McGrady and Yao are finally getting along, but that has plenty to do with Yao defering to Tracy with no ego about it. Carter and Kidd are doing well, but that is surely because Kidd is always looking for his teammates and Carter never really fit that mold about being the initiator of the offense, but rather the finisher. With a good point guard, his world is set. But he is not, in my mind, anything more then a one-dimensional player.
Kobe, however has those championship rings, the hollywood oohs and aahs, and a huge ego about his place in the game to back up his game, at least in his own mind. But as with Iverson, who gets plenty of assists, Kobe passes enough to get those assist totals up because even he realyzes he can't score every time down the court.
The problem is, when do his teammates come out to play a little with him? Who can blame Odom for trying it once in a while without Kobe?