Even amoung friends and family we might come to blows if we get shoved in the back like that, if a non-friend did that we are going to throw down. That is one of the most dangerous things to do to a guy on the court and Jones deserved a suspension for that disgusting play.
Now I know for a fact that you actually PLAY the game, Miguel.
I've griped and griped and griped for years that a push from behind when you're in motion is the dirtiest play in basketball. Potential for nasty knee injuries - the severe kind - is just too great. And you're right; that's the play that even friends and family know will trigger a response.
I was actually involved in a push-in-the-back play several months back - with Skander. As both of us were going for a rebound, *I* got pushed, and fell into him hands-first, trying to regain my balance...kind of a domino effect. Fortunately, neither of us were moving very fast, so neither of us hit the floor, but those could have been HUGE injuries if we had been.
If that's one of my players, that kind of play is an automatic trip to the bench.
Kobe's far from a clean player (he's pretty darn filthy, actually), but that kind of bush-league stuff from Jones is uncalled for no matter who the victim is. It can't ever be condoned.